{"id":3330,"date":"2023-07-17T13:33:03","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T12:33:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/?p=3330"},"modified":"2023-07-17T13:41:35","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T12:41:35","slug":"messy-realities-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/messy-realities-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Messy realities of life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"justify\">I am thinking further along the line I explored in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/truth\/\">previous article<\/a>; namely, that life is messy, and sometimes you need to choose between truth, justice, utility, and kindness. Those things seem to converge as you go higher, towards God, and God is at the same time fullness along multiple dimensions. Here, however, not so much. Let\u2019s say you have to deal with a manipulative person in some business dealings. Navigating such a problem can make you choose between multiple bad options, because you can\u2019t approach it from the position of greatest truth, you can\u2019t approach it with kindness because it might be counterproductive (a manipulator interprets kindness as weakness and an opportunity for abuse), and what I end up doing is a melange of forthright truth and utility \u2013 in essence, I say how things are, what I want, and I do it in a pretty much brutally straightforward way, without much emotion or niceties; here\u2019s what the contract says, here\u2019s what I will do, and here\u2019s what I want you to do. I turn all empathy off, I don\u2019t complicate things with higher spiritual aspects of the situation, I tell things as they are, adhering to the principle of truthfulness, but I am also governed by the principle of utility \u2013 basically, I want to either earn or not lose money, and I try to avoid unnecessary hostilities, but I am also quite prepared to engage in them if it is necessary, just and useful. Also, I have in mind that I\u2019m not really spiritually helping evil people if I allow them to get their way; this would only encourage them in their evil. The principle of ahimsa, therefore, does somewhat guide my actions, but not to the degree where it would always and necessarily prevail. The principle of utility, however, is tempered by the fact that I am an instrument of God, and my personal prosperity and well-being often take a second seat to other considerations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am thinking further along the line I explored in the previous article; namely, that life is messy, and sometimes you need to choose between truth, justice, utility, and kindness. Those things seem to converge as you go higher, towards &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/messy-realities-of-life\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-religion","category-society"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3330"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3333,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330\/revisions\/3333"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danijel.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}